Hi MerakiDave,
For us the problems are not limited to 220/320 as you described. We experience these problems on350 and 425 switches as well.
Also we are not upgrading from a 9.x version but from a 8.x version.
Does your proposed mitigation results in rebooting the switches one-by one if configured in a stack?
Ps. I already opened a case with Support but they told me that rebooting the switches in 1 stack at the same time is expected behaviour.