I see all the mDNS packets from the wireless device, on the wired side of the AP 🙂
But apparently they are not forwarded on the radio, almost like P2P blocking on the wireless side for mDNS.
I made a case, they pointed me to a known mDNS issue on the latest MR32.2.1
When I downgraded everything worked as intended.
(It was not just airplay, also other mirroring / casting devices - but all related to mDNS)