* MR55 with 802.11ax disabled
Is 802.11ax being enabled causing issues also?
* auto bandwidth
Are you talking channel bandwidth?
If so I would set this to 20MHz, unless you have lots of attenuation between floors, then you could possibly use 40MHz.
* client balancing enable
I would turn this off, this will have direct impact on clients roaming because AP's will ignore their requests, to force them to go to another AP etc.
* band selection per AP with dual band but without steering
I would try your best, if you can of course, to seperate the 2.4GHz and 5GHz SSID's, and not using dual-band or band-steering at all. Chances are you won't be able to but worth a shot.
* auto power 2,4Ghz and 5Ghz at 28 Dbm Max
I would not allow Auto Power to run rampant like this. You want to reign in the TX power levels to a 'range', like say 8 to 11dBm for 2.4GHz and 11 to 17dBm for 5GHz etc. Honestly this part here is going to rely on your site survey if you had one performed. Where are your radio's falling at with their power levels now?
Two other things you did not mention
1. What are you using for your channels? Is AutoRF using all available (DFS included) channels?
2. What hardware does the windows computer have for its wireless card? And what driver version does it have? This is far more important than you realize so be specific