These can be difficult to crack.
You mention 10Gbe. Are you using a 10Gbe SFP to a router? That is pretty hard core for a router ...
If the router is getting out-paced with load it may be corrupting frames.
Are you using a recent MS firmware? There have been bugs in the past causing this issue.
What grade of fibre are you using (OM3, OM4, OS2, etc), how long do you think it is, and what is the actual model of SFP+ you are using?