If the traffic is NAT'd to your SMTP server couldn't you do the monitoring on that server? Alternatively you could mirror the port going to/from your mail server to whatever monitoring platform you wanted to use.
Adam R MS | CISSP, CISM, VCP, MCITP, CCNP, ITILv3, CMNO
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