You need both ISPs to connect to the same MX (or the same pair if you want to run HA) if you want to do load balancing (as opposed to failover).
Assuming you have some kind of fibre ISP circuit, you can trunk the ISP circuit across your dark fibre in a VLAN.
Ideally you want an ISP circuit which is using normal Ethernet encapsulation with static IP addresses rather than PPPoE.